“The [arrogant] fool’s anger is quickly known [because he lacks self-control and common sense], But a prudent man ignores an insult.”
Proverbs 12:16 AMP
You will encounter people throughout your life who create so much frustration and confusion that you will ask God to give you extra grace to work with them.
Many people have developed unhealthy responses to such an individual. They might avoid them, try to make them happy but difficult people make themselves unhappy no matter what.
Consider the fact that God might have put these people in your life to be “heavenly sandpaper”. Although you are irritated, God is using them to take off your rough edges.
God is more interested in your character than your comfort. Look at them as a gift from God to help you become more like Christ.
Father, help me to manifest godly character full of the fruit of the Spirit IJN.
Shalom!